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Buying your first home: Where do you start?

Buying your first home: Where do you start?

By Bipin Paul Kunnath Veedu| Dezire Mortgage Solutions/ September 2026

In many cultures, having your own home means a lot. It is connected to our emotions, our sense of financial stability and the memories we make there.

Even after many years, you may still remember the home where you grew up. Your room during your school days, the kitchen, the backyard. These things stay with us. So it is natural to want a place of your own where your family can have those memories too.

But when you start thinking about buying, there is a lot to consider. The price, the location, whether to buy a house or a unit, and whether you are making the right decision. If there are two of you buying together, you may have different ideas as well.

Some people already know what they want. The main question is whether they can afford it. Others find the whole exercise a bit too much and keep putting it off.

So where do you start?

1. With yourself

You may have already checked borrowing power or interest rates online. But the question to ask yourself first is: Do I want a home of my own?

It is a long-term commitment. Property prices can go up or down, and so can interest rates. You need to feel comfortable with the thought of owning a home and the responsibility that comes with it.

Think about why you want to buy and whether this is the right time in your own life.

2. Discuss it with your family or friends

If you are buying with a partner, talk about what each of you wants. You might be thinking about a bigger home, while your partner may be more interested in the location.

Speak with a few people you trust who have already bought a home. Ask how they found the process and what they would do differently.

At this stage, it is also about talking through how you feel. Sometimes, having that conversation helps you understand your own thoughts better.

3. Speak with your broker

By now, you may be excited, confused, or both. This is when I would suggest speaking with your broker.

You may have done your research online  and worked through the numbers. A broker can help you put it together, explain the costs and repayments, and check what first-home buyer assistance may be available.

For me, as a broker I would like that relationship to continue beyond the first loan. I want clients to feel comfortable calling when they have a question or something changes. Many brokers are also connected in the community and may know other people who can help.

From here, your legwork begins. Visit different locations and open homes. Look at houses, units, townhouses or house and land packages. See what you like.

Look around the area too. How far is the train station? Are the shops nearby? What are the schools and the community like?

You may change your mind after visiting a few places. What looked good online may feel different when you are there. Give yourself time to look around and imagine what living there would be like.